Carolina vee

Confidence & Life Purpose Coach

 

positive outcomes only

 

I did what I was supposed to do.

When I moved out at 16 years old, finishing high school, going to university, graduating from university, and getting a career- a title I was going to be respect for… well, that was the be all and end all, y’know? I followed the roadmap everyone told me to follow because it was going to get me respected, rich, and happy.

And man, did I want to be happy. I had enough sadness, darkness, trauma, and negativity to last me a life time, and I was over it. I survived abuse in all the ways: sexual, mental, physical, emotional. You name it? I probably have a story for it. I was made to believe I was a mistake. That I was only partially wanted; a forced-to-term pregnancy. I wasn’t a product of love, or wishful thinking, or thoughts and prayers, or careful planning. I was thrown into a life and a family that I had never chosen; and that ultimately wouldn’t choose me.

And naturally, this is how I navigated the world, with these thoughts in the back of my mind telling me what I deserved, what I was worth, and how little I mattered to make people stay. So I put up these walls, I hardened my heart, and I thought, “Well, world. You think I’m a monster… I’ll show you a monster.” I felt like I was incapable of being loved, incapable of doing anything of substance, and like it was literally me against everyone else. It took a lot of education, self-awareness, guidance, and self-love to get the confidence to reconnect to that small voice inside, my voice, to open myself up and turn my life around. And holy crap, am I ever glad I did.

Now I’m using my experiences and intuition to inspire and help others. I help spiritual, millennial women go from feeling lost, stuck & overwhelmed to feeling free, confident & grounded so they can unapologetically honour the work that lights them up. I also host a podcast where I put my personal stories and thoughts out there and where people feel safe to share their vulnerable stories, to hopefully help and inspire others on a similar path. It is your life, and you are the author. It wouldn’t make sense to continue letting someone else write or dictate your story for you.

 
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“I help spiritual, millennial women go from feeling lost, stuck & overwhelmed to feeling free, confident & grounded so they can unapologetically honour the work that lights them up.”

— CAROLINA VEE

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